HELP ME CHOOSE

Often times, we find ourselves making statements like; (By we Men) I am looking out for a girl who is pretty and well mannered, has the right curves and can take care of a home and is God fearing and so on. (By we Ladies) I need a Man who is; God fearing, will love me deeply, will care for me whole heartedly, is a selfless giver, is financially stable and so on.
But then, have we stopped to wonder if that is all that matters, if what we are looking out for is all there is or if we are looking in the right direction?. Have we considered the options right before we walk down the isle or after the ring is slipped on, or do we ever consider the possibility that all that meet the eyes could all change to the exact opposite? Just asking!!

God gave us the freedom of choice; he doesn't necessarily and magically bring forth the 'right one' to us. He allows us to seek that which is best for us (For our lives and destinies) but he sure guides us, if we let him, for he alone knows what the future holds, he alone knows that which will not change tomorrow, be it; character, life style, finances, you name it! and also, he alone knows that which will get even better with time.

Understand that 'who you choose' is not the question here, but the ability to allow oneself be led and directed rightly. For if the latter be faultless, the former will lack nothing good. 

You need to trust 'Him' to HELP YOU CHOOSE RIGHTLY.

                                                By Stephanie Okonkwo

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